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From One of You: A letter of reflection to the current generation of Globe students

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Returning to back to where the vision began

I had the honour of being invited back to Globe Academy – as an alumna and Globe Academy Award winner to attend the Globe Academy Awards 2025, celebrating some truly outstanding students and talent.

I was invited to give a speech to the awarding students, and although I only had time to share a shortened version on the night, I wanted to share the full version here, in all its glory. This speech is a message I thought would be useful to be reminded of if I was in there position.


This Current Period

For many it is currently a time of transition some of you are going to be heading to the next year and others to university, or straight to work , regardless the next academic year you will be faced with new opportunities, new lessons, new goals, new rewards, new obstacles and as someone who has been through all the periods of transitions you can go through with Globe Academy, I’m going to share what we allowed me to flourish when I was in your positions.

You are a collective

My biggest hope is that you don’t forget to help your peers. There were times in my Business class, when we were completing coursework I remember sitting with my peers and supporting them when I completed mine, and them to me whenever I was stuck on something. There were times where there was two of us helping one student, we had each others back. We understood we were a collective; creating an environment of trust and genuine support made us a lot happier, we had bigger dreams, we had bigger goals, we had a lot of confidence in ourselves. Because it wasn’t a competition, we wanted to see each other win So to the class of 2025 when you can, offer help, when you can, don’t be afraid to ask for help.

Stay ambitious!

I love being ambitious and proving myself right. No human invention was ever created by someone who believed there was a ceiling to what could be achieved.

If I had aimed for a MMM, or a CCC, or a Level 4 that’s probably all I would’ve gotten. But because I set my sights on Distinction Stars across the board – A*A*A*. I had to think differently. I had to ask myself: What would it actually take to get there?

That ambition forced me to raise my standards. And even if I didn’t hit the exact mark, I knew I’d get closer to it than I ever would’ve if I hadn’t aimed that high in the first place.

The journey won’t always be easy, but there’s nothing more fulfilling than achieving your biggest goals.

But it’s easier to be ambitious when you have a clear vision

What Makes Globe Academy Special: VISION

It’s easier to stay ambitious when you have a clear vision.

Vision, is about seeing yourself in positions you may not have seen yourself in. When I failed the year, I overcame that letdown by visualising what success would now look like. I had a clear image of progress:

– Where I would sit to study
– What materials I used to study
– What I was wearing
– What time of day it was

That clarity helped me move forward.

And that’s one of the most special things about Globe—the unspoken relationship it has with vision. It’s part of the culture.

There was a time when going to university wasn’t seen as a normal step—but at Globe, it is. And I’m especially grateful to Mr Jones for the corporate partnerships that helped us get there.

Because of those connections, I had experiences with Bloomberg, Capgemini, Bouygues UK, EY, Subject focused conferences, summer schools, tutors through The Access Project, coaches through CoachBright- even theatre trips. When I was younger, I thought theatre was basically the cinema… but for rich people.

Globe brought success into sight. It made professional success feel close, feel like it was a matter of when not if.

We’re 20 minutes away from some of the biggest companies in the world – yet, we didn’t see ourselves in those spaces for a long time.

I’m grateful for the proactivity of the sixth form team-Ms Barcinska, Ms Baldwin, Ms Donachy -and for a principal who always mirrored professionalism. The kind of principal who shook our hands firmly and treated us like adults capable of great things. So when it came time to enter interviews or corporate environments, we knew how to carry ourselves with confidence.

Because of all this, I never had impostor syndrome – not at my Russell Group university, not at Bloomberg, not at the Crown Estate, not at British Land, and not even when I walked into a theatre performance space I never imagined I’d belong in.

Even when I failed my year, I overcame it by visualising the version of me who didn’t.
Even now, when I doubt myself, I visualise the version of me who doesn’t.

Vision is one of the keys to success.
And Globe has imbedded in me.

Thank You

Thank you to my teachers, Mr Simpson, for believing in our goals, recognising our potential, and nurturing it because you wanted to see us win.

Thank you, Mr Jones, for making the vision clear, for treating us like professionals, and for investing in a culture where we could see ourselves in positions of influence.

Thank you to my peers, for all the encouragement and support throughout the years. I miss you, and I’m wishing you the best wherever life takes you

So, remember, keep your vision clear, stay grateful, support each other and stay ambitious.

I believe in all of the students and the alumni from the Globe community we were nurtured to be capable, to be leaders, to be change makers. And I have no doubt that’s exactly who you are becoming.

Wishing you well,

Ester 💫

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Connecting with your support network

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The reality of a Support Network

Here are two definitions:

“A support network refers to the people in your life that help you achieve your personal and professional goals.” (How can I develop a support network? | DO-IT, n.d.)
“A group of people who provide emotional and practical help to someone in serious difficulty”. (Cambridge Dictionary, n.d.)

The importance is in the word ‘help’.

There seems to be a delusion that your support network needs to be big, but it is sincerely okay if it is small. Would you rather have 1 person who invested in you and supported you versus 5 people who can barely make time for you and give lacklustre support?

The truth is we attract what we expose to people consistently. Around the age of 17/18, a figment of my imagination of a support network was full of people who just wanted to recklessly have fun; gossip and have small talk all time; hard to believe now right? ( I have a blog based on introspection @v@) But that reflected my character.

Contradictory to what you think, friends do not have to be your only support network; your coach can be your support network; your counsellor/psychologist can be your support network; your dog can be your support network; the spider in the corner of your ro- anyways remember:

A support network refers to; the people in your life that help you achieve your personal and professional goals…’ Now that I look at it, it doesn’t really resonate with me that much; hmm let me make my own definition:

A support network is a network of people, objects; locations etc. that can remind you of who you are to ground you during life whirlwinds and can encourage you to get back on track to fulfilling your life’s purpose – Ester. fakedictionary.com 2021

What should you be looking for?

When acknowledging who is in your support network this is not about people you run to for solutions or advice but for encouragement. Is there anyone you know that encourages you sincerely not for the good or bad but simply encourages you when you are fearful about changes in your life?

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You are your biggest support network.

This is natural to say but I want to point this out to people who feel like they do not have anyone as a support network, even their own family. Rather than making you doubt yourself with “the people around you, love you, you jUst dOn’T kNoW it..” Let us use this scenario to reiterate the importance of being your biggest support network because there are many people who truly do not have a support network now.

Being your own support network is mainly about staying grounded but also looks like:

  • Introspection- Reflecting by looking within yourself and trying to get a deeper knowledge of who you know you are and have faith in that.
  • Putting on different lenses to see different perspectives on what you are going through presently.
  • Doubling down on positive self-talk:
@resetnyc

Personally, I think it’s fine to be your own support network, especially as the beginning of forming a relationship can be worrisome.

Take time and have discernment when forming relationships as having people around you that can keep you afloat is as important as the net underneath a tight rope; even if there is a 99% chance of you not falling.

Reciprocation

What tends to go wrong with support networks in most cases is the issue of receptivity. Without going too deep, simply, someone you care about can reciprocate their support for you differently. This is something I realised a lot later after a friendship did not work out. Do you know their love language? Not just how you express you support them but how they reciprocate that expression. If yours is quality time, you would want your support network to express support by contacting and spending time with you. However, if their love language is acts of service, they might express support by travelling to your house to give you something to make you smile; but do not plan to stay any longer than 45 minutes. Do you see how this works? Equally, you need to communicate what your love language is:

Source: https://www.thelawofattraction.com/love-languages/
Every relationship requires compromise and balance because each human being is a snowflake; we do have similarities, but we are different.

Support Network: Parasocial Relationships

‘Parasocial relationships are one-sided relationships, where one person extends emotional energy, interest and time, and the other party, the persona, is completely unaware of the other’s existence’. Sometimes it might be a para-social relationship the other person may not know which can be dangerous for you and the other.

For instance, a YouTuber, they don’t know you, but you look forward to their videos because they always encourage or inspire you, but co-dependency can be damaging to your self-development

Overall, take your time with forming your support network and have a mutual understanding of where the boundaries lie.

Staying connected can really help your mental well-being, so stay tuned to more blogging regarding this topic. If there’s something that resonated with you, please do let me know in the comment section😊

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